Scandal!

Know that you’re now keeping it real the minute you refuse to be drawn into your circle’s ridiculous hearsays and scandal mongering; the instant you begin to rise above gibberish and appreciate that you personally have loads of mistakes and flaws to deal with.
know that you aren't weak to any further extent the moment you overstand that you no longer have to pay too much attention to straight up pessimism, to anyone’s absolute lack of interest at what you do or anybody’s groundless distress at how, why and when you do what you do.
Know that you aren't foolish anymore as soon as you have your fingers on the fact that you no longer have to surrender to any pretense or cheap manipulation, to mean smiles of incoming hostility against every knack you may be gifted with
Know that you aren't fragile any longer the second you become conscious of the fact that you no longer have to allow the essence of your soul to be assembled on the opinion of anyone; particularly not on the opinion of those who’ll no doubt find it pleasant that your state of mind is constantly impaired.
…and if you think this status update is seeking to take shape of your outlook, which you may not need, please don’t hesitate to spit in this coffee that I’m sipping right now and ignore my **s.