Tuesday 4 March 2014

Hate!

Now can we get this straight...
I am not saying hate doesn’t exist because the word wouldn’t have existed, but IMO, the best part of all the hate bashing going on these days are purely prompted by one class of haters hating on another class of haters; nothing but illusions sparked out of discontent and manifest identity crisis, of people incurably yearning for praises and approval, to the degree that they can no longer stand simple civil and helpful criticisms.

It is brought about by some of us who now prefer deception and flattery over realistically considered opinions; by some of us who cannot appreciate that we do not have to be of the same mind all the time to be friends; by some of us who see nothing but hate anytime someone differs in opinion with us; anytime someone falls short in meeting our foolish desires and expectations.

I have even observed that some of us will voluntarily solicit opinions regarding us; regarding perhaps our new-look, new outfit or opinion on what we do, but painfully expect such opinions to modify reality and anything less than affirmative is hate.

Me; as much as I know, God never did and never will send down a memo that everybody must absolutely agree with everyone every time. So far as I know, ‘to like someone’ will never translate to 'always doing or saying what that person expects’; and there is absolutely no commandment that everyone’s opinion is obliged to suit anyone’s anticipation; we all reserve the privilege to see and say things the way we see them.

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