When the "Gorr" (noble) is not so 'Gorreh'...

Anyone who gladly gives his ears, shoulders, time or money without putting a price to it is a genuinely kind and caring person, and not giving him the gratitude he deserves is an ungrateful thing to do. But will you still call him "nit ku bakh" (a generous person) if he makes it feel like you owe him? Is it truly beneficence, or is he just soaking you with kindness so he can wring everything out tomorrow?

Why not think before you start filling yourself with delight. Maybe your newfound "Geur", "Garmi" or "Gorr" (noble) is not so 'Gorreh' after all. Maybe he's cultivating for a good 'garr' (harvest). But then no matter the volume of empirical evidence or references you present before some of us, we will never learn. Is like we learn best by being victims of our own foolish decisions and that's so, so sad.