Friday 26 December 2014

When the moon is jealous of the stars...

Some folks can be the moon and still be jealous of the stars, because they have a tendency to believe that praise, recognition and eminence are their exclusive birthright, and anyone in comparison is seen as a threat. They can claim to be working for a team and for a certain noble cause, saying it doesn't matter who gets the credit, provided that the team will collaboratively achieve its ultimate goal.

If you ask me, don’t take their word for it. They have this cerebral cancer that is never satisfied with anything short of unequalled standing; and the moment someone within the team is seen to be picking up recognition or even wins a tiny applause, their ailment will pump up. They’ll turn out to be overly competitive, and that person becomes a target of jealousy and hostility.

Now instead of focusing on the team’s goal, shit becomes an individual struggle, with everyone setting sights on who’s going to outperform who. The team becomes secondary and a showground for infighting, backbiting and bickering; and instead of joint efforts, solo acts will float up, egos inflated, friendliness devastated, purposes defeated, individuals made, others broken and disgruntled, and at the end of the day, the team will suffer because the spectacle of teamwork was selfishly thrown out.


Bob Marley, my favourite philosopher said: “Life is one big road with lots of signs. So when you riding through the ruts, don't complicate your mind. Flee from hate, mischief and jealousy. Don't bury your thoughts, put your vision to reality. Wake Up and Live!”

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