Wednesday 3 February 2016

Those who don't matter, don't matter...

In a society where riches, favours, and expectations dictate what is to be said and what is not to be said about people and their qualities, even dust-bags can become heroes if they are willing to put in a sizeable bid. But tell you what, intelligent people don't care about self-serving okra-mouths, let alone what they think or say about them.

In this life, if you are valued by those who matter, and by that I mean loved ones, don’t be bothered by off-putting remarks of those who do not matter. Free yourself from emotional pain by letting negativity go down quick into hell. Stop giving substance to things of no importance, because the more you make them significant, the more you will be in needless concern.

It took me a while to become conscious of this, but since then, all I can say is Alhamdulillah. I have realised that a lot of folks are such that when you are of no immediate help to them, when you lack interest or refuse to take comfort in their social interactions, you are deemed guilty of something until proven innocent, and I don't have time for false conclusions like that, especially not from people who cannot let others be the way they want to be.

If you ask me, of all the things we need right now, introspection should be priority, of course with the intention of letting go of our desire to hurt others unnecessarily. But in the mean time, tell those rumormongering idiots to go screw their feelings about you.

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