If you have someone, a friend or anyone with whom you spend time with, but someone who never agrees with your ideas, no matter how brilliant they are, and just because of his negative mindset or dispiriting attitude. Let him deal with whatever personality disorder he has. You gotta do what you feel is right, knowing that you cannot be everyone's stimulant, especially not someone who keeps looking for excuses for not being able to achieve the achievable.
If you need to do what you need to do, like ignoring a certain companion to make the best of an opportunity at hand, even if you are going to be morally obliged to patch the friendship later, just do it. If he's for real, he'll stay. You can't afford to sit in your tomorrow's moments feeling bitter about how better you could've been if you had taken the chances you didn’t take, and because you were waiting for the consent of someone whose only gift is the gift of putting you in a bad mood, or constantly putting emphasis on the worst of everything you want to venture into.
You need to know that you cannot stand out if you aren't willing to be different, and you cannot be different if you keep trusting every vibe-killer that comes your way. Sometimes though, some of them may be genuinely trying to protect you from the risk of heading to a direction that they do not understand. But whatever their motive is, you cannot make a start if you keep aborting your plans because of that. Once you believe you can, any other voice that says otherwise shouldn't count. Now if you wish, take this and move forward; thank me when you get there.
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