We all have someone who doesn't like us, or at least think we have one. But trust me dread, sometimes, it's not dislike, just tough love, especially when you're fairly young. At first blush, that which was prolly intended to guide you against nonsense may seem harsh, but unless too late, you're more than likely to appreciate the priceless frankness as you grow.
Same way, not all who say: "yay, I'm soooo happy for you" is really soooo happy for you, and that too you'll realise with time, usually when the dishonest affection backfires and gets you thinking like: "what the hell! Is this one a friend or an enemy?" Whether you need an enemy with a friend like that is what I doubt.
What some pretended open-mind may tell you regardless, nobody likes a negative feedback. But once you're doing what you do, feedbacks, fair or biased will come your way; how you handle them is what makes all the difference. So unless you're imbued with the ability to identify malice and intent just like that, wise thing's to treat your guesses with careful attention to all probable effects, if you don't want to invent nonexistent enemies that is.
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