PRIVACY....

To me, privacy is a leading component for any long-lasting relationship. I am not saying people [especially ladies] don’t reserve the right to talk big about their ‘magnificent’ partners, but IMHO, only a fairly small dose should do. No one can satisfy society’s unquenchable curiosity to know the whole lot.
If you cannot stop talking about all the details; like the width of his heart, the breadth of his pocket, or even the length of his pants then you shouldn’t get mad at others for butting in; and you now why?
...because your action is more than likely to trigger an envious eagerness in the ones you talk to; they may also want to enjoy what you have or go to incredible lengths to see you lose it, and you won’t be able to blame anyone but your chatterbox habit.
I have seen affairs fall to pieces even before they’re officially coupled; seen friends flirt with hubbies and boyfriends of friends simply because their obsession and fascination was provoked.
Truth is, it is a natural yearning of every lady is to have the ‘ideal man’; therefore if you think you’re blessed with one, maybe just shutting up about it can help you lock it up....Unfaithfulness will succeed more rapidly against the one who confides too much in everyone, one who doesn't make allowance for ‘What ifs’...