Friendship

I know it can be tough to have to find new friends or pretend to have gotten new friends because you feel there is nothing worth preserving or long-term about your old friendship; that’s okay.What is not okay is to set about calling a once ‘true friend’ a slave/‘Jaam’ simply because y’all don’t spend time anymore; even without open-mindedly considering if what’s up was in fact not due to genuine circumstances; or check if you're in fact not cunningly the catalyst to the fallout??

Even if shit was plain disloyalty, the fact is, we will all age and circumstances will change, even this unrealistic vogue of ‘BFF’ will not last and that is a fact. Levels will change and some of your mates will grow influential and get influential buddies, some will grow rich, some poor; some unclear if they should be considered rich or poor, some will change workplaces and career, others will just want to change their circle of friends; because maybe the former one sucks.

Some will get over-involved in foolish conducts and infancies of no use, some will become ‘Markasses’ and ‘Ibadou-Rahmans, whilst some will become total renegades; irresponsibility will win others over, some will travel, others will die too early, some will become outlaws or even jailed, others may go either insane or turn into retards, and some you wouldn’t hear from till time without end..That’s it!

P.S…Personally, when I feel that someone’s ditched me either deceptively or due to understandable conditions, I just don’t care, because to me, it is more than likely that you’re the one missing out on having a real friend