It is said that your failure is
not really a failure until you get down to blaming someone else for it, because
“it is human to err” or to fall short, but having the guts to blame someone
else for that natural thing is like insensitively trying to absolve yourself
from responsibility
Same way, the African should
overstand that his problems are his problems; stop paying too much attention on
the unconvincing notion that every bad thing that happens to him was a secret
plot by powerful foreign conspirators; because even if the conspiracy is authentic, the onus is on the sufferer to stop talking and deal
with it - not the one meting out the suffering.
Unfortunately, we have a very
vulnerable mental state and that is primarily why many Africans have a sad
outlook on being African, we cannot see ourselves as people filled with
possibilities and solutions, and that sucks
If you ask me, until we grind all
these to a halt; until we stop blaming our misery on foreign, or on God and the
natural balance, we will continue to count on the same foreign people for
support and backing, hence we’ll have no rights to point finger at them
anymore.
‘Ken Du Yaakar Nit Beh Parreh
Yabb Kor’ – [you cannot chew out or turn your back on someone who invariably
comes to your rescue in all your difficult situations]
Even if we succeed in making
foreign feel uncomfortable about our problems, say this #Ebola epidemic for instance, will their guilt change our
unimpressive tactics? Will it decelerate our obsession for purposeless qualifications,
intellectual-masturbation, bling-bling and titles of nobility? Will it help us
to grow out of our past and get to work; you know, find solutions? Couldn't
this age be an age of commonsense; or do we want to say that many years ago,
when they came to Africa, they also sailed with our stock of commonsense,
unseen?
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