Corrupt conduct!

You know you’re a sycophant if you’re fond of allotting insincere praises and pretending to be living wholly for people you may not even like, but you do that in order to gain unearned favours.  You’re doubly terrible if you decide to use other people as ransom for those favours.

If you pretend to be of help, service or benefit to others, whilst being evil all the time, and invariably breaking faith with those that you pretend to be of help to, you’re a hypocrite...If you ask me, both the hypocrite and the toady do not only need to refrain, but must ask for forgiveness – I’ll suggest ‘Istighfar’ at least 100 times a day and starting now.

If others have to go the extra mile out of selfless concern for your well-being and you cannot appreciate that, but instead choose to find fault with how much more you think they could’ve done for you, you’re ungrateful. Your fix doesn’t require spiritual intervention. You only need to get yourself out of that unthankful zone and get a life - start living a fuller existence.

You may be full of good intentions for your friends, but the fact that you’re always painfully desirous of what they’ve become, or feel somewhat resentful as soon as they hit upon a certain gain means you’ve have jealousy in you, but that’s perhaps not your fault, it’s your heart that’s dreadfully infected – you only need a strong dose of spiritual antiseptics.