An example is: you want to tell an
obese homegirl to watch her weight, but you don’t feel comfortable expressing
it openly. Tact allows you to do so without being direct. You may for instance
draw on a certain body type and say: “Wow! Look at this; nothing is sexier than
a nice body – man! A lady should watch her weight.”
See, you weren’t sarcastic –I don’t think
so. You didn’t throw shade or call any name either, but I should expect you to
be tacitly overstood…‘daha ginarr wahalleh sohla’ if you like – not best, but
not bad for an attempt…howma sah, I guess junja doye na borom khel!
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