Three can be detrimental to your well-being: holding on to what was, hanging out with an 'unresourcefool' bunch, and three, probably the biggest disservice of all is trying to be a people-pleaser.
Today that it's easier to find a virgin in the maternity ward than to please an average human being, you can give people your all, like you're mother to all, even at cost to yourself, most will still find fault with what you weren’t able to give them - teh pareh si "anything" nak.
If you have a good heart, this is easier said than done, but if you want to preserve your sanity, it's good to occasionally make yourself your priority, especially when you've been taking care of everyone your whole life and none you. It's not selfishness; you're just being about your business.
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