The most embarrassing experience you'll bring upon yourself as a man is going after a lady that is motivated to stay in her existing relationship. But I guess even in this day and age, there are fools that are yet to understand that the use of weight, money or witchcraft to influence relational matters is the most irrational approach to relational security. Men with a sense of consequence don't do that.
Wise men cultivate fidelity by being a person of care and attention, one that'll trust, elevate and cater to the heart and mind of his partner, knowing that a favourably disposed attitude cannot be bought or obtained forcefully, it is earned through an unignorable state of attachment cultivated towards oneself through persuasion, civil conduct and sometimes flattery, rather than arrogance and overbearing conduct.
I may not be a relational therapist as such but trust me, I have seen folks get so, so gutted, if you catch my drift.
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