I don't think any sensible person will get worked up for being told his or her wrongs, if the person is wrong that is. But you don't also expect someone to be friendly if you always seem to find fault with his or her way of doing things, and invariably stopping short of showing him or her a better way; that's not constructive, it's detractive.
You don't just have to like something just because it's done by someone you like. When it sucks, it sucks, but if it's great, it's great; don't allow your dislike towards the doer or the agent to cloud your judgment. I know it's not easy to see a secret nemesis thriving, but really, if the accomplishment is deserved, be objective. In fact, as believers, we are told not to let our dislike of a people to incite us to act inequitably.
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