Once upon a time, separation and dissolution of marriages used to be as a result of unfaithfulness or lost of chemistry. But that was before the demise of selfless civilisation. Now unfortunately, behind every fucked up marriage is a meddling in-law, a maliciously grudging friend, a prying neighbour, a backstabbing affinal relative, or a community that thinks everyone must march to the beat of their drum.
The sooner couples realise this, the more willingly they'll put on their thinking caps, concentrate on making their unions better and stop judging each other by whatever tale the devil has to tell. Don't let your lasting decisions be based on momentary anger. Look deeper at that feeling of affection that prompted your vow, because once it was, it'll always be, and that's what's more important.
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