Be happy :-)

In an overly adversarial community, unhappy is the one who thinks his happiness depends on the approval of others around him.

I repeat; living amongst people who cannot consider anything impressive or genuine except that which is done by them or by people like them, your only chance of happiness will depend on your ability to deliberately pay no attention to their petty judgements and to seperate yourself from that stupid "defa fog neh" thingy.

By that I mean flair hating comments like: "he thinks he's clever; she thinks she's cute; nobody cares about you; do you think you're the first to have or own that; she's looking for attention, act as if you didn't see her, etc."