So your friend has not been in contact like ol’ times, you assume he’s changed, or has a new buddy perhaps, discounting the fact that you could be in the wrong. It could be that he’s genuinely caught up, but treasures you still. Maybe you’ve also not done great looking up. Maybe he’s just decided to outgrow some of what y’all had - anything’s possible.
You can’t be bothered, right? You won’t find out waguan because you too got some dignity to preserve (gaynula am faida). Yeah, you’ll be alright if you move on like that, but it means your ego’s successful, and now y’all have become so near yet so detached. Next, your thoughts become so divisive, splitting y’all further apart. Your feelings getting so bad that you stalk him to see what he’s up to, but getting offended by the things he did or didn't do.
Those who knew y’all to be so tight from way back will wonder what the hell happened. If in your heart you don’t even know what the problem is, then there’s prolly none. So you may for the sake of the memories you share do better and not wait until it's too late to say “yo, what’s up dawg? It’s been a minute.” It could make a lot of difference.
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