Some people will purposely antagonise you just to feel good, to belittle or reduce your pride to nothing, and for the foolish reason that you made them feel underwhelmed, by beating them to their secret desire to be the first to know, own, do, see and say everything.
If you tell them something new, they'll say it's stale news. You own something great, they'll act as if they have seen better, or you're not the first to have it. You'll even be accused of having an ego that you do not have. Screw that!
Hey! If you ask me, you did nothing, because taking a leading role is no one's monopoly. In fact, it's not about you, it's about them that cannot find themselves putting others first in anything. So just remain in your cool... that way, you're screwing their feelings.
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