Friday, 27 May 2016

Are you really hated?

If you ask me, part of what it takes to grow up is to realise that reactions towards you will greatly depend on how you present, behave and conduct yourself, and how you treat others around you.

So, you know you have a lot of growing up to do if all you do is to attack and disrespect people on the assumption that they don't like you, forgetting that people that are liked have identifying characteristics and habits that are likeable.

Granted, people can hate you for being the very embodiment of everything they want to be. But you can also be disliked for being a mean-minded jerk, and for your unwillingness to say sorry even where sorry could have made all the difference.

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