Monday, 27 February 2017

Chronicles...

We were treated unfairly by our own - that’s a fact. But with lesser complains, collective tenacity, and sincerity of intentions, we can and should be able to recuperate without much trouble. Olof Njie neh: “yootkat mo nexa jangal tufli.” And as far as I know, being blessed isn’t an unfamiliar territory to us. In fact, before oppressed people, we were a blessed people.

In case you're too young or too inclined to forget, this is just a crumb of how blessed we were. Having seen a lot and having had conversations with very photographic and fine minds, I came to the conclusion that in fact, all was not bad under the First Republic:

I heard our GDP was once better than Singapore’s – that up to a few years after their independence in 65, they were underdeveloped. I can confirm that up to the mid 90s, during festive periods, Senegalese and other sub-regional women used to come to the Albert Market to do their shopping. We had few hospitals yes, but major health centres and that was sufficient at the time, since there was less stress and people were healthy. The RVH and Bansang Hospitals used to have referrals from beyond borders. And like our kotos today go to Dakar to ball, Banjul used to be the thing.

Even though a Dalasi was enough lunch money, kids used to go to school without worrying about it, knowing that free milk and biscuits will be available in the morning, lunch (dubbed food) was available for only 25bututs, and 25bututs paid for a school bus back home. Public school uniforms used to be available for free - we even had free sandals and caps for the Silver Jubilee. If your exercise book was filled, it gets replaced. The teacher only tears off the tip so you cannot come for a second time. Kids had a handle on English Language thanks to the Mobile library and Radio Gambia’s morning English grammar “Radio Programmes.”

We did not have a university then, but we had education. And the system was such that a ‘Standard something’ or a high school product is likely to reason better than an average present-day college graduate – no wonder most of the instruments we have today and cannot even amend to suit our reality, from the GO, FI, Stores Regulations, Foreign Service Regulations, Code of Conduct, etc. were developed by those low-level graduates.

Those days, even if one’s unemployed, you can go to Banjul every morning and will come back home with something. It was called: "tes-tes;" far more rewarding than today’s "raba-raba." But then folks used to give because they had.

Pensioners will go to the Treasury for their pensions and will be treated with dignity. Ndeysan they’ll be like: “Maneh! Demadon lajteh ndax suma boucher (voucher) parreh na”- meager sums, but so valuable. I heard our telecommunication system used to be best in West Africa and second in Africa. There was Babylonian capitalism yes, but with a national trading, national produce, national transport and other public corporations, needed safeguard against exploitation was in place. The ports, besides being an entrepĂ´t sort of, was the ghetto youths' Wall Street.

Almost all local communities had roving markets “lumos” and they were all booming. The provinces were happening during harvest seasons. Farmers had farming seeds and fertilizers, and career-hunters had supplies of hunting ammunitions through their Divisional Commissioners. Ours was so small a nation but so distinguished. We held membership in so many international bodies, and even lobbied for some relatively bigger nations to be a part of such bodies. Oh boy, the splendour, peace and security of the Smiling Coast wasn’t just said, it was lived.

Saturday, 25 February 2017

Gui gou daar...

Ndanan kom guigou daar la, falla xalehyi day jangay ehgg... that's Wolof, and my point being:

From once you become an iconic figure for what you do, you'll more than likely be a standard by which excellence in that thing's measured. You'll be like a slanted tree, or a sloped surface if you like.

Hence, it wouldn't be unusual for newbies who are dying to sit at the big boy table to learn to climb through you. Some will prefer to lean on you, others will rather dare take you on like they got that kinda juice. Some will send eulogies your way for being a needed drive, others will scornfully make an equal of you. If you ask me, let it slide. It's quite a feather in your cap to be such an icon.

No title...

If walking all over others is your intended means to an entitlement, you don't deserve it. And if you think I'm just being a dehorter, go ahead and claim it. For now, hejna ken dusi mun fuck-all, but as fate will have it, you'll have your just deserts in end the end, teh yowit dor si mun tuss.

People pleasing...

Three can be detrimental to your well-being: holding on to what was, hanging out with an 'unresourcefool' bunch, and three, probably the biggest disservice of all is trying to be a people-pleaser.

Today that it's easier to find a virgin in the maternity ward than to please an average human being, you can give people your all, like you're mother to all, even at cost to yourself, most will still find fault with what you weren’t able to give them - teh pareh si "anything" nak.

If you have a good heart, this is easier said than done, but if you want to preserve your sanity, it's good to occasionally make yourself your priority, especially when you've been taking care of everyone your whole life and none you. It's not selfishness; you're just being about your business.

Vindication...

When you have something to crow about, just "anything," there will be conspiraces to incriminate you falsely, you'll be lied to, but also lied against - lies so consistent that even those who trusted you may be caused to doubt your innocence.

You can go on a door to door campaign, trying to vindicate your honour, but whether all folks will listen is what I doubt.

If you ask me, hear what Joel Osteen was credited to have said: "God knew there'd be unfair situations. That's why He's already arranged a comeback for every setback, vindication for every wrong, a new beginning for every disappointment." Just believe!

Friday, 24 February 2017

All knowing is God’s...

I don’t know where we picked up all these social media bravado from but it’s scary, and it’s certainly not from our homes. Training kids to show sensitivity in dealing with people, especially with elders is typical of every Gambian household. I think it’s about time we draw the line between liberalism as we put it into practice and sheer disrespect.

Being a liberal somebody is not about rubbishing everything that is seemingly old school to you. Learn to appreciate the good, knowing that even if what’s conservative were a broken watch, it’s sure to be right twice a day... one rapper said: "There would be no New School if it wasn't for the Old School." They paved the way, so hats off to them.

Jim Rohn said: "Our emotions need to be as educated as our intellect. It is important to know how to feel, how to respond, and how to let life in so that it can touch you." So no matter how well-read you think you're, you cannot dismiss others as “ignorant” simply because they don’t conform to your idea of how things have evolved or should be. Your broad general knowledge regardless, you will always be ignorant on some subjects. All knowing is God’s.

Thursday, 23 February 2017

It's insecurity, mostly...

If you happen to be disrespected by someone just like that; someone who you probably don't even know, and you're wondering like: "nmba kokoo, eh! What the heck did I do to this one?" I bet it's not you. Insecure people don't wait for people to give them cause to be disrespectful.

If you ask me, you're probably a well-regarded person, and the vile idiot whose league you're way out of cannot stand it, hence jealously creating drama around you - y'know, just to be able to say something nasty to you. Don't ask me how to get rid of such nonsense because you can't. So, see it as a personal performance indicator and move on.

You only get one life to live...

I’m sure some of you’ll remember my bashing of those kids who fervently trust that “you only live once” (YOLO), mostly to feed their desire ...